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Sexual Compatibility Test for Couples

Looking for a sexual compatibility test you can take with your partner? This one lets you both answer privately. You each go through the same questions on your own, then the quiz compares your answers and reveals only the activities you both said Yes or Maybe to. A No stays completely hidden.

The quiz covers 313 questions across seven categories: The Basics, Toys, B.D.S.M, Anal, Public, Group, and Other Fetishes. Each one is tagged beginner, intermediate, or advanced, so you choose how far to go. It is built for two people, not a solo score.

It is free, requires no account, and results are automatically deleted after 30 days.

What to expect

  • The quiz contains 313 questions: 165 beginner, 95 intermediate, and 53 advanced, across seven categories. You choose which categories and levels to include before you start.
  • Most activities are asked in both directions, once for giving and once for receiving, because enjoying one side of something says nothing about the other.
  • Questions adapt to your anatomy, so everything is phrased for the two people actually taking it.
  • You each answer privately with Yes, No, or Maybe. Only mutual Yes and Maybe answers are revealed, and results are automatically deleted after 30 days.

Example questions from the quiz

A few real questions from across the quiz, exactly as they appear when you take it. You answer each one with Yes, No, or Maybe:

  • Have partner give me a sensual massage

    Beginner

  • Watch porn with partner

    Beginner

  • Use vibrators while having sex

    Beginner

  • Be spanked by partner's hand

    Beginner

  • Have sex with partner in a car

    Beginner

  • Have a threesome with a same-sex third

    Intermediate

Common questions

What does this sexual compatibility test actually measure?

It does not give you a percentage or a personality label. It maps which activities you and your partner would both be open to trying. Only mutual Yes and Maybe answers are revealed, and everything else stays private.

Is this a couples quiz or a solo test?

It is built for two. One partner creates the questionnaire and shares a link. You each answer independently, then the quiz compares your answers. A solo kink test only tells you about yourself. This one shows the overlap.

Do we see each other's answers?

Only where they match. After you both finish, the quiz shows just the activities where you both said Yes or Maybe. Everything else stays private, and every questionnaire is permanently deleted after 30 days.

How is this different from other compatibility tests?

Most compatibility tests score you on personality or values. This one is a yes/no/maybe list of real sexual activities. The privacy layer means a No is never shown to the other person, so you can be honest without the awkward conversation.