The Complete Kink List for Couples
Looking for a kink list? This one has 313 activities organised into seven categories: The Basics, Toys, B.D.S.M, Anal, Public, Group, and Other Fetishes. Each activity is tagged as beginner, intermediate, or advanced so you can start wherever you are comfortable.
The list is built into a quiz designed for two people. You and your partner each answer privately with Yes, No, or Maybe. The quiz then compares your answers and reveals only the activities you both said Yes or Maybe to. A No is never shown to anyone, so you can be completely honest without worrying about judgment.
It is free, requires no account, and results are automatically deleted after 30 days.
What to expect
- The quiz contains 313 questions across seven categories: 165 beginner, 95 intermediate, and 53 advanced. You choose which categories and levels to include before you start.
- Most activities are asked in both directions, once for giving and once for receiving, because enjoying one side of something says nothing about the other.
- Questions adapt to your anatomy, so everything is phrased for the two people actually taking it.
- You each answer privately with Yes, No, or Maybe. Only mutual Yes and Maybe answers are revealed, and results are automatically deleted after 30 days.
Example questions from the quiz
A few real questions from across the list, exactly as they appear when you take the quiz. You answer each one with Yes, No, or Maybe:
Have longer teasing and foreplay sessions with partner
Beginner
Watch partner use sex toys
Beginner
Be fingered anally by partner
Beginner
Slap partner's face during sex
Intermediate
Have sex with partner in work environment
Intermediate
Watch partner have sex with another person
Intermediate
Common questions
How many kinks are on the list?
The full list contains over 250 activities across seven categories: The Basics, Toys, B.D.S.M, Anal, Public, Group, and Other Fetishes. Each one is tagged as beginner, intermediate, or advanced, and you choose which categories and levels to include.
Can we just browse the list without taking the quiz?
The list is built into the quiz: you go through it question by question with Yes, No, or Maybe. There is no separate page to scroll through, because the privacy layer only works when both partners answer independently.
What if my partner says No to something I want to try?
They will never know you said Yes. A No is never revealed to the other person. The quiz only shows activities where you both said Yes or Maybe.
Is this list different from a kink checklist?
Same idea, modern format. Traditional checklists are printed sheets you compare side by side. This quiz does the comparison automatically and adds a privacy layer so neither partner sees the other's individual answers, only the overlap.